10 GOLDEN RULES OF LIFE’S HAPPINESS

I received this reading from my father recently, and thought it had to be one of the most wonderful things I’ve read. It had no titles, no subjects… just the article. So I’m calling it 10 GOLDEN RULES OF LIFE’S HAPPINESS because it really is. Hope it can brighten your day as it did mine, and give you a new perspective on life. Wishing you a great Monday and a funtastic week!

1. Prayer is not a “spare wheel” that you pull out when in trouble, but it is a “steering wheel” that directs the right path throughout.

2. So why a car’s windshield is so large and the rear view mirror is so small? Because our PAST is not as important as our FUTURE. So look ahead and move on.

3. Friendship is like a BOOK.
It takes a few seconds to burn, but it takes years to write.

4. All things in life are temporary.
If going well, they will not last forever.
If going wrong, don’t worry, they can’t last long either.

5. Old friends are Gold!
New friends are Diamond!
If you get a diamond, don’t forget the gold! Because to hold a diamond, you always need a base of gold.

6. Often when we lose hope and think this is the end, GOD smiles from above and says, “Relax sweetheart, it’s just a bend, not the end!”

7. When GOD solves your problems, you have faith in HIS abilities. When God doesn’t solve your problems, HE has faith in your abilities.

8. A blind person asked St. Anthony, “Can there be anything worse than losing eye sight?” He replied: “Yes, losing your vision!”

9. When you pray for others, God listens to you and blesses them, and sometimes when you are safe and happy, remember that someone has prayed for you.

10. WORRYING does not take away tomorrow’s TROUBLES, it takes away today’s PEACE.

Taken from my China trip in 2010. Such an incredible experience and makes you truly believe that God IS Great!

THE 7 ESSENTIALS FOR HIGHLY MOTIVATED PEOPLE

The ultimate goal of any successful company is to have a balance between Finance, Strategy, Marketing, Operations and Human Resources Management. More often than not, the easiest and most difficult part is the Human Resources aspect. People are more complex than machines or numbers, and frequently harder to manage. Therefore, like any capital, we must be cognizant by the phrase ‘employees are a company’s asset’ because sometimes they can be a company’s liability – depending on the value or quality.

Everyone agrees that good employees are those who are hard working, smart working, reliable, accountable and also loyal, among other positive traits. Loyalty is not merely about longevity or how long you’ve worked for the company, but importantly your dedication and commitment to your work and to the good of the company. Subsequently, every employer wants this type of employee on their payroll – and let’s face it, they’re few and far between. Some may argue these qualities are inherent within an individual, either you’re born with it or not. However, let’s not forget that character is not set in stone, it evolves over time and can be developed.

The key to producing People that are self-driven, self-motivated, highly dedicated and passionate to achieving their Peak Performance for the company is first and foremost PRIDE; intrinsic pride as well as extrinsic or created by the environment. Having an employee that takes pride in what they do and the company they represent is the most valuable asset a company could ask for. It doesn’t matter whether you’re the CEO of the company or a custodian of the building, if you take pride in what you do, then your job will inherently add value to your life and it will reflect on your work. Consequently, pride comes at a price; these are the essential pillars to achieving high staff morale:

“SEVEN PILLARS OF PRIDE”

1. A Meaningful Job Done Well

Knowing that your work enhances your life and that you do it well. Feeling good about yourself and your abilities. Knowing that what you do and how you do it really matters. A proud employee begets excellence, quality work, value to their work and service.   

2. Empowerment

Being given responsibilities that match your knowledge and skills. Being given opportunities to learn, to grow and to build your self-esteem.

3. Affiliation

Belonging to a fine Organization; a company that has upstanding reputation, practices good corporate governance, has tradition, history or heroes.    

4. Trust and Mutual Respect

Being able to rely on the integrity of all those with whom you work.
Recognizing each others’ rights, responsibilities and talents, and that you need each other. Team Work. Cooperation. Open Communications

5. Loyalty

Putting the good of the organization ahead of other interests.
Supporting the decisions and actions of those with whom you work.

6. Healthy and Safe Environment

A good place to work, free of physical and emotional dangers.

7. Recognition and Appreciation

Knowing that your efforts are appreciated and that people are delighted with your work. Giving your employee recognition, a simple thanks or appropriate rewards for a job well done.

4 BASICS TO CREATING SYNERGY AT WORKPLACE

I recently met an HR Senior Manager of an established Corporation who told me about his company’s troubles dealing with Synergy. He explained that some of the units don’t work effectively together, people blame each other for problems that arise and not take initiative to solve them, low responsibility and accountability of work, people working individually and not being team players. He shared that it has resulted in an unhealthy working environment and an inefficient work within the division.

TEAM SYNERGY PROBLEMS AT WORKPLACE – AND HOW COMMON IT IS
Team Synergy is a very common problem in the corporate world. Whether it’s a fortune 500 company or a local business, as long as humans are running the business – not robots, there’s going to be human relationship problems running in the business. Teamwork problems are inevitable because every individual that comprises a team has different ways of doing one thing. Many people don’t realize that teamwork is more than just working together to get things done, but more importantly it is about achieving results that are much greater than the sum of each person’s contributions.

THE IMPORTANCE OF TEAM SYNERGY
Team Synergy problems are caused by human discrepancy such as difference in individual priorities, talents, interests, ego, habits, strengths, weaknesses etc; ineffective communication; poor management/coordination/strategy; poor leadership and followership; individuals not playing as team players; or people simply not pulling their own weights. The by-product of team synergy problems in essence is low productivity; miscoordination, inefficiency, overlap or gap of work, individuals not performing at their best, lack of responsibility and accountability, people not mindful about holistic process, people blaming people, etc.

A Team Peak performance can be achieved if every team member knows their roles and responsibilities, takes upon themselves what is their share of the load, works at their best and furthermore collaboratively sees the whole process through to completion. Superbowl champions don’t become champions because the Quarterback single-handedly rushes the football for each touchdown – it takes the whole team’s effort.
I’d like to share with you the basic fundamentals in creating a positive Synergy:

1. SHARED VISION, VALUES & GOALS
Company Vision, Mission Statement, Core Values, Goals & Targets.
Begin with the end in mind. Give your People a sense of purpose as to why they come to work everyday and contribute to the company. Goals work as a motor for motivation, however a shared goal needs to be matched with clear roles, by putting the right people at the right time and at the right place. When each team member has clear roles and responsibilities of their own and others’, the risk of overlap or gap of work can be reduced significantly. Goals will also create challenge. A team that has dealt with a trying situation and come out successful together will typically have a stronger relationship. Review Review Review. Whether your team has or has not done well together, always review where you did right and wrong – and improve!

2. GOOD LEADERSHIP & FOLLOWERSHIP
Can someone lead if no one follows? Leadership is intertwined with followership. Most times we only talk about the importance of good Leadership, but there’s not enough emphasis in good followership. In order to create a good team synergy, good leaders and followers must co-exist. In our training programs, there’s an exercise in which a group of 12 people, as a team, they have to solve a strategy problem in a given time. If they fail the first time, they get another try in a given time, with two of the member’s eyes blindfolded. If they fail the second time, they get another chance in a given time, however with two other member’s mouths closed. Participants are typically able to solve the problem in 3 tries, with each try completed in much less time than prior, even after taking handicap factors into consideration. One of the most valuable and most common insights of this exercise is about leading and following. When less people try to lead and actually be good followers, willing to be led and listen to and cooperate with others, the task at hand can be completed much more efficiently and effectively.

3. TRUST, RESPECT & COMPASSION
When every individual works and communicates with the basis of trust, respect and compassion, everyone will feel that their contribution is as valuable as the next person – and vice versa, and therefore each person will give their best work for the Team. A compassionate individual will be conscious of the impact of their action on others. In result, everyone will pull their own weights, and collaboratively reach Synergy. In all of our Team Development programs, we begin the course with Trust activities. Under the supervision of our Outward Bound instructors, every team member is challenged to put their own safety on other people’s hands – sometimes colleagues, sometimes friends, family members, but sometimes also complete strangers. In all cases, as the subject, he typically has hesitations, worries or even fears. However, once they each are able to overcome their fears and completely trust others for support, surely the team is set off on a great start. This exercise also exemplifies that in a trusting environment, the trustee and the trusted parties are both interdependent with one another. They both have the same responsibility to each other, no one is at a better or worse off situation than the other, one person’s success is the team’s success.

4. POSITIVE ENVIRONMENT
Like human relationships, Synergy is a constant process and must be managed. It’s not a destination that you arrive to and just halt, it’s a never ending journey that you and your team as the crew of a ship, embark upon together and must constantly row and work to reach it. Effective communication is key to creating and maintaining Team Synergy, and part of it is Conflict resolution. An effective Team is capable to resolve differences by finding and managing the best solutions from the team member’s contributions, despite differences of skills, opinions, strengths, weaknesses and talents. Managing and resolving human relationship conflicts clearly differs from fixing a broken machine. There’s no surefire formula to do it, it’s not as straightforward as 1+1 =2; in which, aside from knowledge and skills, it requires practice, experience, time, patience and commitment. In order for Synergy to thrive in a community, a positive Teamwork culture as foundation is paramount, where engagement of each team member is encouraged. Fine management is an important element to create order, nevertheless great human relationships are the key ingredient in creating harmony.

My best wishes in your Pursuit of Great SYNERGY in your Teams!